Marriage and Divorce

“(…) there was an old fellow (…) – a man of very great intelligence. Well, he used to say that the great thing in married life was patience. (…) Not love, but patience. Love cannot last long. You have lived two years in love, and now evidently your married life has reached the period when, in order to preserve equilibrium, so to speak, you ought to exercise all your patience.”
“The Duel” by Anton Chekhov

We think that we were not enough wise while we married him or her. We are so clever today, so we get divorced. However our wisdom concerns decisions made in the past. In view of the present time we are stupid.

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2 thoughts on “Marriage and Divorce

  1. bdh63

    I agree with this quote, but I do think love waxes and wanes like the moon. If you are patient, it grows and grows again. But only if both partners are patient and invested in making it last.

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